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  • mimorugk

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    ⚔️: Now isn't the tim-
    🪕: AAAAAH SHUT UP SHUT UP

  • spaceshipsandpurpledrank

    Naw, LET HER COOK!

  • queenstravelingdarling

    THE REAL QUEEN OF RAP!!!!

  • spaceshipsandpurpledrank

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    Leaving this in the tags was criminal

  • anotherdayforchaosfay

    @starlightandtears

  • starlightandtears

    And that's on HWAT? Gurgrkgdjf. 💅🏾🎤

  • respectissexy

    It feels taboo as a childfree person to admit this but I actually do have concerns about who is going to take care of me when I'm old. The elder care system in our nation relies A LOT on the unpaid care labor of adult children. I just don't think that's a good reason to have kids.

    "But you'll have more money!" does not completely put this to rest for me. Neither does "Buy care insurance!" Even if I can afford direct personal care, who is going to advocate for me to get it? Who is going to navigate bureaucracy for me when I'm 80?

    "If you do have kids, there's no GUARANTEE that they'll take care of you when your old!" That's true, but doesn't solve my problem.

    I think childfree people get very defensive about this question because its used as a kind of "gotcha!" against us, but I actually do not feel we can afford to be in denial about this reality. Based on current trends of more people in their 30s stating they intend to be permanently childfree, we are going to see a huge wave of childfree adults hitting the eldercare system at once in a few decades. Childfree people in their 30s should be advocating around eldercare NOW.

  • drtanner

    We desperately need to cultivate a society in which everyone, even the most bitter, unlikeable, miserably lonely person in the world, has a social safety net that they can rely on from the day they're born to the day they die, and that includes their elder care.

    We are not going to achieve this meaningfully under capitalism. :')

  • sunsetsandhope

    Due to personal reasons I will be loving myself with my whole heart

  • sunsetsandhope

    so glad so many people decided that they should love themselves as well, yes, you go best friends, you are stunning, gorgeous, amazing, cool and deserve to look in the mirror at yourself with love, not hate. Don't waste your precious time hating person you are, it's not worth it, you have so many better things to do

  • sygol

    haha ❤️ hilarious post my friend! *eyes narrow and my face goes stone serious* but it does not resonate with my own ideological schema, so i shall not be reblogging it

  • starlightandtears

    You know what people don’t talk about enough for my tastes? How those of us who are mentally ill and Black work so fucking hard to make our crises small and silent and invisible so that our loved ones or strangers do not call the police for “help” and get us killed. The ableism police departments are known for toward every person experiencing a mental crisis or break is goddamn awful already but being Black on top of it? Fuck.

  • starlightandtears

    Back to this post because my heart is in pieces

    Jordan Neely should still be here.

    Anti-Blackness, ableism, classism, and the Cop Mayor of New York/NYPD failed him. The people in that train car failed him.

    He was hungry, and he was tired, and he dared to say that aloud and dared to not fit in with ableist and classist expectations of proper decorum and etiquette. We have become so desensitized to the humanity of the houseless, mentally ill, and systemically disenfranchised people around us that the very CULTURE of my city has become one where an entire train car of people stand by while a YOUNG, VIBRANT, and wonderful HUMAN BEING dies in the arms of a vigilante loser with a goddamn hipster mustache who gets let go by police.

  • foreverimthatgirl

    a family member of mine has recently passed and i need some financial help w funeral costs. pls check out my readings first before considering to donate!

    c*sh*pp // v*nmo // p*yp*l

    $50/$300

  • foreverimthatgirl

    please boost we are having the funeral soon

  • hotch-girl

    PAGET BREWSTER as EMILY PRENTISS

    CRIMINAL MINDS — 6.02 “JJ”

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